An incurably optimistic over-50s lunch

The much enjoyed annual lunch at St George’s Hill Lawn Tennis Club was both familiar and freshly invigorated this year. A small but significant tweak to the age range, now welcoming over‑50s, brought a broader mix of guests to this much‑loved gathering, graciously hosted once again by Peter Jamieson (Blackwater 1960–63). Set against glorious surroundings, the event combined a reception drink, a superb three‑course lunch and lively conversation, with opportunities beforehand to enjoy the sunshine on the terrace.

The afternoon’s standout moment came with our guest speaker, Paul Mayhew‑Archer (Reeves 1967–71), introduced with warmth and ingenuity by our Development Director Emma Garrett (Nugent 1984-86). Rather than a conventional introduction, Emma could frame Paul’s life and career through an article written in 1987 by her sister Belinda Le Brocq (Nugent 1986-88), who had interviewed Paul for The Eastbournian after entertaining him for tea at the College. It added an interesting perspective to the occasion.

Belinda’s article (here on page 55) recalled Paul as a “witty and charming ex‑head of school”, more at home in the drama world than on the games field, self‑described as the 'third worst rugger player in the College', and fondly remembered for playing Ariel in The Tempest in 'very fetching green tights'. The affectionate details drew laughter from the room and set the tone perfectly.

Paul’s talk, Incurable Optimist, lived up to its billing. With dry wit and disarming honesty, he traced a career that led from early encouragement at Eastbourne and Cambridge, through radio and television comedy, including I’m Sorry I Haven’t a Clue and The Vicar of Dibley, to his latest film project, directed by John Madden; look out for Onward and Sideways coming to a cinema near you soon! He also spoke movingly and amusingly about life with Parkinson’s, demonstrating his rare ability to blend humour with humanity.

As guests lingered over coffee, there was a shared sense that this had been a particularly special occasion: celebratory, thoughtful, and quietly inspiring. If optimism really is incurable, it was generously shared around the tables that afternoon.